It’s fair to say that sex work is certainly not your average, everyday job. I get asked a lot of curious questions about the job. Here are six of the questions I get asked the most:
Do you enjoy being a private escort?
Over time, I have become a lot more selective of my clients by valuing my mental and physical health over money.
I have also changed my branding a lot over the past year and type of client who contacts me has changed as well. A lot of people aren’t aware that sex work is more than just having sex. It can actually be incredibly fulfilling and I feel more like a therapist than a pornstar most of the time. I have even had bookings where there is no sex. Men see escorts for a lot of different reasons- loneliness, confidence issues, difficult home life, over worked, wanting to be taught how to give pleasure and the list goes on.
Believe it or not, this work is a lot more honest and wholesome than the corporate world I worked in beforehand.
Of course, like any job, there are moments that I enjoy less, but these are rare. Overall the positives outweigh the negatives, otherwise I would not still be doing this.
Have you ever turned away a client?
What turns you on the most?
Scent imprints such strong memories.
What happens when you have a booking but you're not in the mood?
When I first started, I hadn't learned what these limits were and I often burned out from accepting too many bookings.
I felt bad for the last client of the evening, because I was probably very tired! I also have gained quite a few regular clients. New clients drain a lot of energy because you’re constantly trying to figure out what they like, but it’s a lot easier when you already know what makes them tick. I also keep a healthy lifestyle which helps give me energy to do my bookings. If I’m really not feeling up to it, I would just reschedule but this would be very rare (as I can’t stand flakes, so I wouldn’t want to be one myself).
How do you become intimate with someone you're not attracted to?
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