Finding the right amount of time to spend with an escort can be a challenge. You don’t want the experience to feel rushed, but on the other end of the spectrum, you don’t want to feel like you’re filling in time for the sake of it. There are a few things to consider when deciding on a duration. There’s obviously a financial component to this question, but given a particular budget- are you better off seeing an escort for a shorter period of time more regularly, or will spending more time but perhaps less frequently provide a better overall experience. There is no straight forward answer to this question; the answer is different for everybody- so let’s talk about the factors that affect your individual decision.
Firstly, what are you intentions for seeing an escort in the first place? Are you seeking some intimate companionship; perhaps you’re on a business trip? Maybe you’re single, living alone and are craving an intimate connection with someone? Are you looking to fulfil a fantasy- a threesome or a role-play? Perhaps you’re in a dead bedroom relationship and need a physical outlet? Or maybe you’re just really horny for no goddamn reason.
If you’re looking for someone who fits into the first two categories, you’re probably looking for a temporary substitute for a relationship and would benefit from a booking duration of at least two hours. A professional companion is a great way to alleviate feelings of loneliness without the commitments that come with traditional dating and hookups. I have many clients who have ditched traditional hookup and dating methods completely for professional companions. Believe it or not, you can develop very deep client-escort relationships in this industry. I have personally been seeing some of my clients for over three years, and we probably know more about each other than most of our friends and family.
A booking of at least two hours gives plenty of time to share a drink, relax and take your time to get to know each other. While conversation might seem like ‘wasted time’ (I mean, you’re paying for sex aren’t you?), but when you’re both feeling relaxed and comfortable, it makes the intimacy much more passionate which I believe is a better overall experience. This is especially true if you’re booked that particular escort because of her online presence or personality, rather than just on her photos.
Of course, not everyone is seeking an emotional level of companionship- some people literally just want to have a purely physical experience. I totally respect this- seeing an escort is a great and honest approach to fulfilling ‘male urges’, rather than manipulating women through dating apps.
In this case, I would recommend an hour or less (depending on what the escort offers). Sex can be physically demanding and not many people can keep it up for over an hour. Also keep in mind that escorts are only human, not a robot, and even if you think you can keep going over and over for hours, she may not. Only you know how you perform; whether you can go for a long time or short, multiple or just once. Keep in mind that you may be nervous, especially if it’s your first time seeing an escort or you don’t use these services frequently. Things ‘may not work’ as they normally do and the pressure of a time limit will only compound your anxiety. Therefore, it may be worthwhile considering a 1.5 or two hour booking to give you more time to relax and maybe have a drink and a chat at the start.
The other type of booking I will touch on are those that fulfil some kind of fantasy. A lot of men choose to see an escort to do something that may be a bit more taboo to ask a partner. Such experiences could include filming, threesomes, BDSM or role play. The booking duration really depends on what the fantasy is. With filming for example, there can be a lot of ‘mucking around’, setting up the camera position, figuring out the best angles, maybe taking different types of shots (POV, tripod) and there’s a lot of stopping and starting. In this case, you might need to factor in some extra time for all that. Some people might just like to set and forget, in which case even an hour could be enough. With escort duos, there are a lot more ‘combinations’ so to speak, so you would probably want to factor in more time than you would in a solo booking. For most ‘fantasy’ type bookings, I’d say anywhere between 1.5 to 2 hours would suffice.
I hope this post gave you a bit more clarity on how to figure out the right amount of time to spend with a companion. If you’re still not sure- it’s always worthwhile starting with a shorter amount of time and asking if the escort has the capacity to extend if you feel you need more. Not many escorts will shorten a booking and give money back (I actually have a few times, maybe if the surf report was good that day 🤣), but a lot more will be open to extending. Of course, extending may not always be guaranteed so it’s better to get the duration right from the beginning.
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Hi Jasmine,
By nature, I’m a reserved kind of person that eventually “comes out of his shell” in social situations, so I’ve felt like longer bookings—and even in some cases a four hour dinner booking—were the best fit for me and my providers for this reason. I really got a lot out of this post, so thanks for highlighting booking lengths from an Escort’s point of view